员工风采
Gratitude 感 恩
2010-03-02 05:21 付璟璐

 

I asked my colleague a question yesterday.
     'What's your attitude about betray?'
 I think we usually talked about this topic with our friends. Whether in the film or in our real life, and the things related to betray always bring suffering or indignation or some other bad feelings.
     But yesterday my colleague, a boy, give me an unusual answer which make me surprised.
     'I think everybody should have a gratitude heart. If  nobody betrays you, you should take it for the grace of  life. If somebody betrays you,you should take it easy. Because that may come sooner or later. 'It's his answer.
     To the person who helped me or encouraged me I always have an gratitude heart. Although I don't remember who has betrayed me, but in my opinion, the behavior of betray should not be forgiven. Compared with his opinion, I think mine is so constricted and selfish.
     Sometimes we get so busy and caught up in daily life that we forget to be grateful. When life is good, gratitude is easy. It becomes challenging to be grateful when we are experiencing hard times. But gratitude becomes more important in hard times. It can make us stronger ,wiser and more loving today. The power of gratitude is no limits whatever you may think.
     The less complain and the more joy. Why not open our heart to joy. Let's develop an attitude of gratitude. Look everyone with grateful eyes. Speak words of  affirmation everyday in our life. Be grateful for your life with its lessons and blessings. You will find a lovely world.

 

 

 

  昨天,我问了同事一个问题,“你如何看待背叛这件事情?”
我们经常会跟朋友讨论这个话题,不管是在电影里还是现实生活中,背叛总是会带来痛苦、者屈辱或者其他不好的感觉。
但我的同事,却给出了一个令我吃惊的答案。
“我认为每个人都应该怀有一颗感恩的心。如果没有人背叛你,你应该感谢生活对你的恩赐;如果有人背叛了你,应该放宽心,因为该来的终究会来”。
对于那些帮助和鼓励过我的人,我总是心存感激。虽然我不记得有谁曾经背叛过我,但是我一直认为背叛的行为是不可原谅的。想想同事的观点,觉得自己的想法竟如此的狭隘和自私。
有时我们过于繁忙,忙于繁杂的生活琐事,以至于忘记了感恩。生活安稳的时候,感恩会变的简单起来,但当我们面对艰辛的时候,感恩就不是件容易的事情了。但越是在艰难困苦的时候,感恩也就越发显得重要,他能使我们更强大、更聪明和更加热爱今天。
少一些抱怨多一些快乐。为什么不敞开心扉拥抱欢乐呢?让我们养成一种感恩的态度,用感激的眼神去看每个人,日常生活中多一些赞美的言语,感激你生命中所有的教训和祝福,你将发现世界是如此的美好。